Papa's girl

Hey all, welcome to my blog page. This is my first blog and I am quite happy, nervous and excited about it.

Never in my wildest dreams had I thought I will write a blog and post it publicly. Writing has always been my passion and  it never fails to amuse me. So to start off, I would like to share with you all the challenges I overcame at school/college. 


I have seen so many people who look happy and enthusiastic, but in real sense they are constantly fighting with their inner self to look so and I can say I am one among such people who have always tried to overcome so many fears and emotional breakdowns.

I had always been Papa's girl and I fondly called him APPA and he would lovingly call me PAAPU. But when such a dear and loved person suddenly disappears from my life I was devastated and left with nothing but sorrow and misery. A sudden demise of the head of a family eventually leads to losing of monetary funds and the social interaction reduces to low level.

My mother is a brave and strong lady, who being the only bread earner of the family takes good care of me as a single parent .Every parent teachers meeting at my school and college would be attended by her and when I would see other children of my age coming with both their parents, made me to just breakdown and go into deep thought ,thinking why the almighty snatched away my father from me. But as I started growing old, I realized that there is no point in being sad all the time thinking about his absence and I accepted the truth about my mother now playing my father's role too .I accepted everything that's been given to me and now I always feel he is with me giving all his blessings to everything I do. A DAY NEVER ENDS WITHOUT REMEMBRING HIM.

Since my father passed away, the so called relatives also maintained a distance from us thinking that we might ask monetary favors ,but the only thing we expected from them was to talk to us so that we could have lightened our hearts. I am an introvert and since I am very serious and studious all the time most of them would not like me ..so I have a very few friends who just befriended me for who I am and they are my lifelines. Even in this case too ,I accepted  my situation and came to reality and felt happy ever after:)

So, the key to happiness and overcoming any challenges is to accept everything that is been given to us and to think that 'Everything comes as a blessing in disguise' and to be grateful for all that we have.

Hence, I leave you here with this thought. If you have liked my blog feel free to share it .

Your comments are valuable ,so please do leave a comment.

Thank you for reading it till here taking out your precious time.

Until next time, take care .

Bye:)

Comments

  1. Dear Shambhavi,
    You are a very strong girl . You are handling your responsibilities the way it should be. You left me in tears with your untold story . I know that Appa is very proud of you, about your values. More power to you. And love you!
    And the very best for this new project!
    Arundhati MB

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    1. Thank you so much for your kind words arundhati,and i love you too:)

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  2. AMAZING dear.. Be strong ... Do make ur mom feel secured nd proud bcz of U

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  3. This one is just lit. I'm into tears after reading this...be happy..& as always I'll be with u forever ❤️

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  4. Suberbbb shambavii... just loved it and be strong as u r just love u kanee❤️

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  5. Super putti ❤️ u r a very brave girl strong girl u have a bright future keep smiling always �� love u dr bestie �� bestie forever �� child hood frnds even I miss uncle also but I want to tell uncle is with u only his blessings always with ur family I always supported girls be happy always have a bright future ahead

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  6. Harini.g
    You left me with tears with your story dear, you are the strong girl,stay brave ,make your mom feel proud by achieving your dreams, you will find your father in your achievements

    Love you loads...❤️❤️

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  7. Wow!! That sounds inspiring ...
    All the best girl ❤️

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  8. Overwhelming ๐Ÿ˜”๐Ÿ˜”

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  9. ๐Ÿ˜‡U R THE BEST ONE SHAMBHAVI KEEP GOING LUV U

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  10. Superb Shambavi..!!
    I'm really proud of you..and I'm sure your APPA will be proud of you too. I wish that you achieve your goals and become a strong person just like your amma❤️❤️.
    - With love
    Sinchana.

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  11. Be brave and strong . And stay as you are .have a great future ahead ๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’– Shambhavi . proud of you .๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

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  12. Shambhavi ..... be the same as you are and don't care for the people's words around you.

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  13. You are so inspiring girl, ur dad is alive in ur all happiness and achievements, don't care of others they are u to put u down, so ahead and have bright future,
    ALL THE BEST ๐Ÿ’ช

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  14. Heart warming.... ๐Ÿ’•
    U are so inspiring shambhavi...
    Be strong as u are๐Ÿ˜Š

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  15. I'm speechless shambhavi b'caz ur story resembles exactly as mine .so be very strong and ignore the people who doesn't have any concern on u
    ALL THE BEST
    Regards priya

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    1. Thank you so much priya and i would like to tell you the same thing too! Be strong and achieve your dreams:)

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    2. It's amazing. You are inspiring! Congratulations ๐Ÿ‘

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  16. Wow!! This is truly amazing! Be strong and brave as you are

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  17. Superb Shambhavi... Proud of you... There is a spark in your writing... Be brave and strong...
    ALL THE BEST!!
    LOADS OF LOVE ❤️
    -Shreya

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  18. I can feel you! Great blog, keep going๐Ÿ˜‡

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  19. Be strong buddy....Will always be there๐Ÿ˜Š❤️

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